​Whether you come for private sessions, or join a training with other couples, training with Paulette can be life changing. 
Located at sensational Coorabell, you can attend the workshop overlooking Byron Bay and the sweeping coastline, hear rainforest birds, and later visit the Crystal Castle, Minyon Falls and famous surfing beaches all within easy driving distance.
Nourish yourself AND your relationship - returning home refreshed, reconnected and revitalised in body, mind, soul and relationship.

Private Options

Communication Coaching - 2hrs $195
  • support to have difficult conversations successfully
  • hear and be heard
  • agree on strategies to move forward

Ingredients for Healthy Relationships - 2.5 hr private training $295​
Pre- marriage or Relationship Tune up
Learn how to keep the vitality in your relationship - lasting love
  • Boost your connection with solid foundations for a healthy, aware and trusting relationship
  • Create a shared reality - what really matters to each of you in your relationship
  • Understand each other more deeply
  • Meet needs for awareness, clarity, open communication, warm, loving, mutually enjoyable intimate relationships​

  • ​ Resourcing Healthy Relationships 
    Learning The Language of The Heart - 8 hours $1500
    A very popular 8 hour program combining emotional intelligence and communication training for stronger relationships
     ♥ enjoy expert tuition in powerful and effective ways to discuss any issue  
    ​♥  bring awareness and skill to your intimate relationship and consciously create the quality of connection and vitality you long for
     ♥    Build trust, openness, lasting connections
    ♥ cover the foundations of Compassionate Communication (NVC)
    ​     ♥ learn powerful skills to successfully express difficult messages
    ♥  how to resolve conflict and  much more
     ♥   Lean on competent support while building self -reliance and self confidence 
  •           ♥ Paulette provides a dynamic, supportive, safe and fun learning environment. ♥ 
    PLUS  - ask for your FREE extra 1 hour zoom session - at time of booking The Language of The Heart

Group Options 


Couples Connecting - NVC Introduction
​A Couples NVC Introductory workshop 
TBA
In Person:
  • Come individually or as a couple 
  • In person  at Beautiful Coorabell
  • no experience needed  
  • enquire about next date
On Zoom: 
  • Come individually or as a couple 
  • ​no experience needed  
  • enquire about next date
Couples, Communication, Connection Retreat
​A Non-Residential Couples Retreat held once a year at beautiful private venue overlooking Byron Bay. 2022 YTBA
  • Join other couples for a weekend delving into qualities to create a lasting, loving intimate relationship.
  • Begin on Friday evening, meeting 6-8pm for a few introductory activities and meet other couples, establish agreements;
  • Saturday return 9.30am- 4.30pm, and ​Sunday 9.30am - 3.30pm                                                                                                                                                      See page above for more details  & testimonials​​​​
Relationships can get rather serious - following is a lighter look at intimate relating by the Flight Of The Conchords, a NZ comedy duo
"All my expectations were met through participating in this course. I am confident that I will be able to communicate with others, my partner, family and friends in a more loving , compassionate and empathic way. Learning this process has unblocked a blockage in my life that has hindered my growth and my ability to have healthy and fulfilling relationships.  Paulette has been wonderful throughout the two days.  An accomplished teacher, she made me feel at ease, safe and always positive and caring.  I would recommend any person to partake in this training for a fulfilling and greater understanding of human communication, love and compassion." 
 John P  Murwillumbah 

"Prior to your workshop, Paulette, I had been feeling pretty discouraged.  We've been married 38 years and I've found all but the first six years very challenging.   We've been going to fortnightly marriage counselling for the last 4 years with someone who understands Asperger's, but I felt frustrated that she seemed to make a lot of excuses for Perter's behaviours. He enjoyed going to her but I couldn't see many changes in our relationship. At $180 an hour with no medical rebate and seemingly little progress, I suggested we have a break and concentrate on the NVC material you covered with us instead.
At last, although he has his strong perspectives on things, with a fair bit of prompting and encouragement from me, he is beginning to associate a name of a feeling with body sensations, and guesses a feeling for himself, and even for my daughter and me!  It has been such a breakthrough.  It has been worth waiting for.   Of course, there are many years of habitual patterns in our interactions to work through but I think we're heading in a positive direction at last.
So thanks for your part in that, and your commitment to sharing NVC and being so calm, caring and encouraging in your workshop.  I feel so inspired by people like you who model compassion and compassionate communication. It is truly a life-enriching gift that you share with the world.  It encourages me to be the change I want to see in the world.
Thanks!"
Liz W.  South west Queensland